I'v been wearing my Hijab for about two years-ish (I think).
And it is one of the hardest things to commit to (esp when you have to attend weddings and you feel like a 40year old grandma!), but at the same time- its is magnificently simple! What intrigues me the most is when people within the academic or working world perceive you to have a thick foreign accent, or to be incompetent in what you do, or unsophisticated in what you say.
The best moment, in my experience as a hijabi, is when you do eventually open your mouth- you see the shock horror on the other persons face when it suddenly dawns on them that 'Oh my Goodness, they have a British accent, and I can understand what they are saying?!' This in my opinion is a priceless moment, when it suddenly hits them that the head veil covers my hair only- not my brain.
Fellow peers may flaunt their gorgeous hair & be successful. But hijabis manage the latter without the former... you learn to be appreciated for your intellect not cosmetics... And when you have great living examples such as; Myriam Francois Cerrah, Muna Abu-Sulayman, Nicole Queen, Susan Carland- it makes it so much easier to be good at what you do & excel whilst still observing religious obligations.
Those who hold their covenant with Allah, have everything- in Deen & Dunya...Those who leave it- are losers in this life & the next...
Saturday, 21 January 2012
Tuesday, 10 January 2012
Chasing Street Lights...
As I drove through the bending & winding lanes of the country side at 7pm yesterday it dawned on me how this one road reflected a life time worth of work...with only one headlight functioning at its optimum and a total absence of any form of street lighting- my vision of the road ahead was somewhat limited. Blundering full speed ahead in utter & total darkness brought to mind the likeness of this situation to that of the wider world...We are the cars in this busy road of life...our goals are only met if we focus on what is ahead...when the immediate becomes unforeseeable- we loose focus, hope and determination of will...but it is the street light of God almighty that guides us down the path...lighting up our paving to success...showing us the way to our goals and keeping our aspirations alive...on that note I submit my first ever post as an e-blogger and pave the way for many more posts to follow...x
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